To have a good relationship, one must be able to understand each other – without necessarily agreeing.
To be able to understand each other, one must be able to communicate properly together. Not just exchanging words and opinions, but having a dialogue in an agreed, firm, safe environment so that no one is hurt by feeling rejected, hurt or angry. Most often, the conversation about a person should be about what is important to the person, and not be used for other purposes such as attacking or attacking back.
This is the core of a good relationship.
To be able to communicate properly, one should be able to talk about feelings, and not vent all one’s anger. Most importantly, one should be able to listen to the other person properly, then judge for himself if he wants to let the person talk some more or let the situation go. It is also important for one to be able to have open communications to avoid holding grudges. Open communications should include not just talking about one’s feelings, but listening and noticing the other person’s feelings and needs.
Also, to be able to have an agreed-upon line of defense when expressing one’s opinions, one should be able to talk about each others thoughts and feelings first, before one makes any opinions. Couple therapy (parterapi Valby) might be useful. Also, to be able to be able to talk about one’s own feelings and needs without causing hurt or rejection, one should practice ‘oneness’ within the marriage, and allow the other person to experience ‘oneness’ at the same time.
Marriage requires a lot of maturity and maturity is not all coming from one person. At the very minimum, each partner should be able to practice the ‘one-ness’ of oneself. This is not something that is force able with the other person. It is always about becoming ‘one’, not being one.
Also, there are very strong opinions that require a lot of discussion. Because these opinions are often strong and strong feelings may be triggered, there is often a lot of fighting which eventually causes a marriage to break apart. However, when strong feelings are present within a marriage, then there should also be strong boundaries between both of them.
In order to be able to fight well, it is important to practice ‘knowing’ your partner and knowing their strengths and weaknesses. Also, in order to be able to know and have strong boundaries, one should also know one’s feelings and emotions and also try to be sensitive to others. There should also be a balance between knowing and being ignorant of ones own feelings. This is why it is also necessary for one to know one’s feelings and emotions.
In order to be able to listen well, one should practice ‘knowing’ and also not to interrupt when the other is talking. Also, a person should also practice listening to others. In order to be able to be able to talk about one’s own feelings and needs without causing hurt or rejection, one should practice being open. In order to be able to talk about one’s own feelings and needs, it is also necessary to practice not interrupting when the other person is talking. One should also avoid listening to others who are talking when one is also talking. Finally, in order to be able to be able to communicate well, one should practice open communication.
There is a lot of marital issues within one or the other partner. One partner is unwilling to make compromises, another one is trying to keep their partner in a small box, or one partner is making demands. There are also issues that is that the partner is not willing to talk about their feelings and desires. At the very least one of the partners should be willing to have a heart-to-heart discussion about these issues.
Marriage is a commitment of two people who should also practice their commitment in order to make a marriage work. It is also necessary to practice their commitment in order to make a marriage work. In order to have a good marriage, one should also be able to commit to their partner, without expecting them to reciprocate. In order to have a happy marriage, one should also take the effort to communicate with their partner.
It can be very difficult to practice your commitment in a marriage, especially when it is your spouse who is not reciprocating. In these circumstances, the couple needs to communicate about it and also discuss how to prioritize what is important to them. This would be the beginning of the journey of deciding what is important to their marriage and which isn’t. This would be the beginning of the journey of determining what the partner is doing to improve the marriage. One can do research, asking questions to determine what is needed to improve the marriage. One can also try to use these findings to improve their relationship. Moreover, one can also have a discussion about these issues to determine what each spouse thinks are the main issues in the marriage. The couple would also need to determine if they should work on these issues or to let them go.
There is a major issue with the marriage that the couple needs to consider if they should let their marriage go. If this is the case, then one should also determine what is causing the marriage to break down. This is the first step to the process of breaking up and repairing a marriage. One can ask the question like “what happened between us?” and try to ask the partner to explain. The partner may also ask for some time to explain to the partner. They may also ask for some space to explain to the spouse that their explanation is not as bad as they thought it was. Also, when the partner is asked the question like “what can I do to save our marriage?”, they should also explain what they feel the spouse should do and what they themselves should do in order to save their marriage.
Communicating with the partner is also the first step in learning what to do in order to fix your marriage. They would also be asked if they are working on things to fix the marriage. This is the first step to the process of learning how to fix your marriage. If they agree, then they should learn together in order to fix it. This is the beginning of the journey of fixing your marriage.
The couple should also figure out what to do and say to fix the marriage. This would be the beginning of the process of changing bad behaviors and changing good behaviors. One needs to figure out what to say to their partner. For example, saying sorry or apologizing can also be used as an effective tool to fix a marriage. When it comes to fixing your marriage, some spouse may also need to apologize if they hurt the other. And finally, the partner should also learn how to listen. This is the first step in learning how to fix your marriage.
The partner should also figure out what to do and say when the relationship is very cold. This would be the beginning of the process of making the relationship hot again. When it comes to fixing your marriage, some spouse may also need to take a walk and talk to the other to make the marriage warm again. Then they should also talk about how they can make the relationship hot again. They should also figure out the last and most important step in the process of fixing your marriage is learning how to forgive.
Learning how to fix your marriage takes time. It also requires the cooperation of the other person, couple therapy. The spouse should also realize that it is important to forgive the other person. This takes time. The partner should also remember that communication is the most important key in learning how to fix your marriage.
